book one, down

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picture from the Kindle Version

I finished the first book I started for our brain professional learning community (PLC), and will use it for grad school. The Geeks Shall Inherit the Earth by Alexandra Robbins is a fascinating, scary, and real study on what marginalizing teens can do to their esteem, creativity, and innovation.

Robbins explains quirk theory as: the values and traits that cause a student to be excluded are the exact traits that others, outside the school setting and into adulthood, will love and respect.

She explores the motivation behind eight different students caught in the cafeteria fringe as they muster their way through high school. It is both horrifying and gratifying to watch these students battle, daily, to stand what Brene Brown calls their sacred ground.

The goal, clearly, is to start to break down the social stigma and recognize that cliques are cliques are cliques, but truth lies in the uniqueness of each individual. The best group dynamics are built with people who do not think the same and have different values because then they can creative and invent models that are the combination of their best – which in the land of industry, we are now calling that innovation.

We fall privy to it all the time, our comfort zones, our places of safety. We gravitate to those who DO think like us for validation, for love, and for respect. However, staying in this safety zone and allowing the differences between us and them to grow, actually stifles that which motivates our greatest self.

Robbins offers suggestions for students, parents, and administrators about how to support the cafeteria fringe and allow them to be who they are in a safe and welcoming environment. Mainly, we need to see our individuals as the person he or she is, and help him or her develop as their most authentic self.

Big task.

But an important one.

It is worth a read and a reread, for sure.

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solidifying the course of study

I have four core ideas of study, a list of books thirty deep, ideas tipped out of my brain, and am stymied as to where to start, how to learn all this information and then…what to DO with it. I could coach, I could profess, I could stay exactly where I am, I could write, I could, could, could, and then I get quiet and wonder, really, what is it that I am here to do, and what have I done from the beginning- because I am finding that the life line to the purest moments in our life-of-actions reveals God’s truth.

He wants me to glorify him. I get that, but recognizing the nuance of that, in all of us, is absurdity on crack, which of course, makes me insanely excited. So, what do I do really well?

image from jmason.org

I see.

I see people’s hearts. It seems incredibly normal to me, but it is affronting to some, especially my students who, if they haven’t talked about it to me, think it is creepy. I suppose it would be if it isn’t expected that teachers should know their students, but I do. I read their papers, I listen to their thoughts as they discuss and ask questions. I am in the business of knowing, because if I don’t, then I lose the opportunity to tap into their passion and (hopefully) help them become stronger readers, writers, thinkers, and communicators. Sometimes, I’m not sure how it is that I know what I know, but once I say it, I see it as the truth it is and say, “huh, yep, that is true.”

And so what does one do when what one is a…uh, seer?

Hi. Oh, what do I do? I see…and I have a Master’s to prove that.

heh.

You see my dilemma, yes?

The good news is my adviser assures me it is about the paths I throw out and the journey I take, and sometimes the paths thrown and the journey taken do not line up – to which I chuckled…isn’t that life? Isn’t that what we do day in and out? But I reeled in my absurdity card and now am pulling in my focus and recognizing that I don’t need the answers yet, just the questions…and that is what I teach, and that is why I see.

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From the shadow

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from and into the shadows

The hardest weeks and best weekends are linked to growth and conflict. As crummy as that feels when in the midst of the junk, the process of working out of the shadows of regret, remorse, reflection, and realization is relieving.

This week I’ve had to lean into God. I’ve had to allow him to put his hand on my head and just hold me. There were no words for this week. There were no explanations.

And, like a plant leaning into the sunshine, I realized that it wasn’t desperation to escape the darkened shadows, because there is still light there, but instead, the want to be in the light. It was a relief to lean into God’s love and accept it without trying to convince myself I didn’t deserve it. I, like the plant, accepted the warmth, breathed it in as my life source and recognized I was exactly where I needed to be – in his arms.

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Because poetry is on the mind

I was creating sub plans today and realized that some of my favorite ted talks are by poets, and so I decided to have my speech students take a shot at pointed poetry. I give them the direction and they write until they get to a destination. This time they are to come up with a five to six word motto and then explain it in a creative way – whether in poetry, prose, or art. I ended up in an entirely odd place with mine. A blend of my grandfathers and their battle with breath.

I would reenact it for you, but alas, my flash drive is at school and I am here. So instead I shall bookend my words of a new sort with two of my favorite TED talks.

Billy Collins

Smile

the smile is small, kind
a smirk of sorts. Never
before shared with
those on the other
side of the umbrella.

Thrown between puddles
and flicked from thought
to thought as a skimmed
rock across the pond only
to glance up and find
another.

Small, kind
Amused with a hint of
red and porcelain opening
with the widening
of connected
eyes.

Sarah Kay

So it is your turn, what is your motto for today? What way would you express the importance of it for your life? Go on, animate your thoughts. Write the universe on the back of your hand, and share ideas worth sharing (collins, kay, and TED).

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In response to yesterday

Joshua Radin has a great song about picking life and the goodness of people over the darkness and despair. Often our world turns on a seemingly small choice that becomes pinnacle in our lives.

Where are we going, who are we now?

Lately, everything is hazy but I know what is true, Lately, everyone seems crazy, but I believe in you.

So it is time to make up my mind. What do I choose? Do I choose crazy? Do I choose the ugly? Or do I believe in what I know, deep down, to be true? Do I remind myself that my place, my purpose, my right now is about the positive affect I can inject into my daily life? Do I choose the crazy goodness or just the crazy?

 

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